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A doctor at Federal Medical Center,Ebute Meta Lagos – has got herself trending online for urging Nigerian husbands to marry a second wife or extra wife (as the case may be) if they have the resources. According to her, marrying more wives is better than the irresponsible act of cheating on their wives with other ladies.

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Below is what Hauwa Ibrahim shared on Facebook;

Dear men after being a responsible Husband, try marrying a second wife if you have the means, those with two should marry three and those with three should marry four! Thats a great Sunnah and its better than irresponsible act of chasing young girls out there…..


59 Comments
  1. Shehu 6 months ago

    Unless we are deceiving ourselves, it pays a woman for her husband to marry more wife than the husband himself, come to think of of it; to cook everyday, wash everyday, clean everyday and even satisfy your husband everyday in the other room HABA! Besides ,with known wives STDs is better controlled than with unrecognized but existing girls here and there.
    Women take the advise , to relax, leave healthier and longer and guess what am taking my second wife ( hajia )very soon !!!

  2. Suleiman Abdullahi 6 months ago

    A very good advise from sister, May Allahh rewaed you for enlighten your sisters in islam May Allah give us resources that will enabke us to marry four wives so as to reduce the menace of hight rate of unwanted preganancies among our ladies.
    Thank you once more again

  3. Hauwa 6 months ago

    Fully supported…

  4. Babangida Hammani PhD 6 months ago

    You are right Doctor

    • Hafeez Ololade 5 months ago

      Islam is a religion of nature. It’s the only religion that extensively considers the nature of man. Marrying more than One wife is the real solution to most of our social economic problems. May God almighty grant us the ability to practice this wonderful tradition of the Holy Prophet.

  5. Umar Sambo 6 months ago

    There abound several reasons for taking a second wife for those who can afford,And when you do it for Allah’s sake you ‘ll never regret. .come to think of the growing number of our sisters and daughters out there looking for husbands to marry and the menace that is facing our society. illicit sexual acts, alcoholism,drug addiction etc. And the growing number of women in every society. Class differences among the rich and elites within themselves and lots more.

  6. Nasir illo 6 months ago

    You right, hauwa.and iam interested

  7. Garba Samaila Boyi 6 months ago

    Dr Hauwa, it is indeed the reality that so called elite Women refused to accept. May Allah reward you abundantly now & forever.

  8. EL-Bukahri 6 months ago

    Waw very interested labari my the almighty bless you abundantly

  9. siraj 6 months ago

    why women are not responding in this chart?
    Is Hauwa telling the truth or not?
    Hauwa GOOD

    • Hamza Abdullahi 2 months ago

      Hmmmm they don’t want buddless their self.
      So is better for them to be quite.

  10. Mohammed Kolo 6 months ago

    This is a naked truth so easily said but has never worked at all. Observations has evidently shows that those with multiple wives are more frequently caught cheating on their wives than those with one wife.

    In other words, polygamist womanizes more than the monogamy family. The one wife man usually is more discipline and very caring/responsible than the other man with many wives in most cases.

    They key expression is that marrying more wives has NEVER solve the problem of adultery anywhere in the world but its a matter of individual sexual character and discipline.

    However, having many wives promotes ISLAM even though the same Islam prescribed such with clear conditions of EQUITY AND FAIRNESS PLUS RESOURCES. I rest my case.

    • Shehu 6 months ago

      A statement is never a fact
      unless there are empirical palpable statistical and generalizable evidence to back it up .
      Hence , your so called evident observation should be double checked as it lacks the above stated qualities.
      Polygamy remains the bedrock of social reforms if only it could be practiced in accordance with Islam
      Kindly dig deep into the cause of the present day wide spread promiscuity and nudity, it was never as bad as this until after the second world war I suppose ,though there is bound to be some randy persons, due to several reasons
      But the fact remains that polygamy is a natural instinct which can not be quenched but catered for
      Beloved, pls find out what was in practice among the patriarchs of yore across all nations of the worlds from east to west and north pole to southpole

      • Abbas 6 months ago

        I agree with you totally. Since M Kolo above cannot provide stats then what he wrote is not valid. However, I will add that men should not rush into taking additional wives just because they have the financial power to do so. Do they also have the “bed” power?

    • yahaya Muhammad 6 months ago

      @muhammed kolo. Can you please prove the first part of your comment. Tell us the source of your finding

    • Ibrahim sardauna 6 months ago

      Kolo you’re not been fare to the readers if you’re kind of people that can not control yourself even after marrying more than one woman than you have a different problem but believe you me, you can be more discipline and humble when you have varieties of women under your control at home married.

      • Jibrin obaje 6 months ago

        Thanks for your response

      • Sumaya 5 months ago

        That it called lust

    • Tosin 6 months ago

      This is d most sensible & honest truth.It is not marrying many wives dat makes u responsible, bt,ability to control ur sexual urge or libido.

      • Tosin 6 months ago

        A man dat can not control his libido wt one wife may not be able to do dat even after marrying 4 wives,they still chase after other women despite having 4 wives

        • Sumaya 5 months ago

          I agree with you Tosin unfortunately that what our brother are doing taking advantage of marrying 4 but forgetting the responsibility that cames with it and marrying with more than one wife all for the wrong reason .
          Forgetting that one marriage alone is half of they dean .
          This is sad to say that is a lot of disfunction families out there because of it because brother are not following the sunnah completely and are not been fair to this wife’s like sunah command .
          But I’m nobody and Allah knows the best !

    • Mohammed Baba 5 months ago

      M Kolo why don’t you backed your statistics that shows polygamy never solves the problem of womanizing? I am sure you don’t have such data to prove your statement, your are just helping spread the arm chair view of some nay Sayers. By common sense, a man with multiple sex partners is most likely to be preoccupied going the rounds with his legit wives that he hardly have extra time going after costly, time consuming efforts that womanizing requires. This is not to say that there are no exceptions but certainly they do no form the majority.
      Please remain with the logical position and let have our daughters get husbands by letting the men know the important service they render practicing polygamy.

    • Tuahir 5 months ago

      I think u have been override by ur husband for long, be a man enough.

  11. Lawan Abdulwahab 6 months ago

    Mohammad kolo should prove his case with empirical evidence but not with observations, l am a polygamist and l am a responsible husband it is a matter of attitude and fear of Allah. Monogamist can also be a responsible husband, whatever the case having a legal wives within the context of sharia is far better than engaging in adultery or fornication.

  12. Muhammad Al-Ameen Sulaiman 6 months ago

    Alhamdulillah masha Allah having a female Dr advising males to marry more than one wife n abstaining from chasing girls around which will even cause sexual diseases.May Allah reward u Dr Hausa.n protect us from zina n its dangers. Ameen.

  13. Yakubu Bappa 6 months ago

    That’s a good reminder to all men jazakallahu khairan may the Almighty reward you. But what kolo was we know his stand mijin Hajiya, shikenan.

  14. Habiba Mahmud 6 months ago

    Masha Allah may almighty Allah continue to guide and protect Dr hauwa for this great advice, please my sisters allow your husband to marry other women for Allah sake, at least you will have more time to take care of yourself and the children and the other women will be taking care of the husband before it’s your turn again,

  15. Benjamin 6 months ago

    Just passing oooh. Is the doctor married? Hmmmmmnnn

    • Isiyaku Salisu Abdullahi 6 months ago

      Even she is not is a good advised

  16. MD Eibo Adanu 6 months ago

    Good reminder right. If one has the means to do so. But sometimes, one ponders why men with more wives still go after young ladies. Have u guys observed this too? Most men with beautiful and elegantly stunning wives are most culpable. So, adding more will it solve men nature, especially Africans men . Perhaps, Dr. Hauwa is trying to test her popularity prowess as there’s no dull moment in Nigeria. I am internally in love with Hauwa creativity and thinking capability. If she is still single. Most women would certainly not be in tandem with her opinion at all. As her suggestion is already awakes an piles in some quarters. Labarin yayi tar de sohon basir in Hausa

  17. MD Eibo Adanu 6 months ago

    Good reminder right. If one has the means to do so. But sometimes, one ponders why men with more wives still go after young ladies. Have u guys observed this too? Most men with beautiful and elegantly stunning wives are most culpable. So, adding more will it solve men nature, especially Africans men . Perhaps, Dr. Hauwa is trying to test her popularity prowess as there’s no dull moment in Nigeria. I am internally in love with Hauwa creativity and thinking capability. If she is still single. Most women would certainly not be in tandem with her opinion at all. As her suggestion is already awakes an old piles in some quarters. Labarin yayi tar de sohon basir in Hausa

  18. Shehu MB 6 months ago

    Kudos to Dr Hauwa for boldness . Mal Kolo I disagree with the second part of your statement. 95% Monogamous husbands are promiscuous. Am married to FOUR and don’t have time to waste on other woman.

  19. Abdulmalik Danladi Abdulmalik 6 months ago

    Alhamdulillah doctor may Allah bless you for the advise thanks

  20. Saeed 6 months ago

    Hauwa are you married? If yes, are you the only wife of ur husband or one of the wives? If the later is case. what’s ur experience?.. From experience there is once a great female scholar that preached polygamy thou she was only wife of her husband, but at a point when her husband decided to add another wife she turned wild and the house never know peace…masha Allah

  21. Jamiu Tajudeen 6 months ago

    What a candid advice from a woman to woman

  22. Ahmed 6 months ago

    You are indeed a woman of respect and indignity. ..May Allah rewards you. .your post reminded me of Qur’an 4:3-4

  23. Isiyaku Salisu Abdullahi 6 months ago

    I am so happy with what this woman said,if others women’s will have this knowledge things will move normal islamicaly,ALLAH yamiki albarka

  24. Umaymah 6 months ago

    It is allowed for a man in Islam to marry more than one wife….Agreed!But the problem with some men is they lack the resources and are not fair to the other wives especially when the new bride arrives.May Allah guide and protect us from punishment in dunya and akhira

    • Shuaib 5 months ago

      Amin Umayma. By and large, Dr Hauwa’s advice is sound and quite timely. InshaAllah we shall continue to be fair and just to all our wives. May Allah enrich us with faithful and loving wives.
      amin Ya Allah.

  25. Frank Forson 6 months ago

    My wife has given me the green light to go for EXTRA WIFE on condition that she determines who spend the Knight with me.

    Teasing meeeeeeeee……………..

  26. Hawa 6 months ago

    Well said namesake.Allah in his wisdom prescribed what is best for mankind.Thanks for the reminder.

  27. Abdul 5 months ago

    You want to marry more because it’s sunnah, yet you neglect the sunnah rakaats after your obligatory prayers. These are the words of one great world renowned Islamic preacher.
    Muslims let’s be cautious about marrying more than one if we can do without it, listen to the advice of Allah himself after he commanded us to two, three or four.

    • Sumaya 5 months ago

      Abdul could you elaborate on your replay please I would like to know more of your opinion

  28. Ibrahim Bebeji 5 months ago

    The other untouched areas will include pathological cases that cannot be solved by added wife. The unprecedented urge drives these guys crazy and wild too. That should be recognized and treated accordingly.

  29. Adegoke 5 months ago

    This is an astonishing advice from a well made woman!
    You reminded me of my wife about 15-17years ago when my wife, as beatification adegoke as she was as is now, when she would go all the way and finalised with a very beautiful and cultured maidens, about 3 then, one after the other to go for and marry to second her! When she was at the university then. I was the one chidding away then. When I asked why she was doing that she would say “man is ordained to marry more than one and so far I understand that, the better I choose for you the one like me for you so as not to cause problem foryou and our family my dear”
    Up till now, am with her.
    Am still in dilemma over her advice after 25years of marriage.

  30. Adegoke 5 months ago

    This is an astonishing advice from a well made woman!
    You reminded me of my wife about 15-17years ago when my wife, as beatiful as she was, as is now, when she would go all the way and finalised with a very beautiful and cultured maiden, about 3 then, one after the other to go for and marry to second her! When she was at the university then. I was the one chidding away then. When I asked why she was doing that she would say “man is ordained to marry more than one and so far I understand that, the better I choose for you the one like me for you so as not to cause problem foryou and our family my dear”
    Up till now, am with her.
    Am still in dilemma over her advice after 25years of marriage.

  31. shaaibualiyu22@gmail.com 5 months ago

    A dector is a person that can help another person the take him medicine

  32. suleiman sidi 5 months ago

    it’s cool by me Dr this is a good one

  33. Abdul 5 months ago

    That is the Sunnah of Rasulilliha and Islam, may we have more women like u Dr. Allah saka maki da alkhairi

    • rufai 5 months ago

      ru

  34. Alhassan 5 months ago

    Masha Allah. Hauwa May Allah reward you abundantly.

  35. Fatimah Mahmud 5 months ago

    If our Men will do that it will wonderful. Aure Ibadan ne. May Allah bless us with it

  36. Abubakar 5 months ago

    Thanks

  37. Musa Husayn 5 months ago

    Ma shaa Allah…. Post of the year

  38. Shuaib 5 months ago

    Amin Umayma. By and large, Dr Hauwa’s advice is sound and quite timely. InshaAllah we shall continue to be fair and just to all our wives. May Allah enrich us with faithful and loving wives.
    amin Ya Allah.

  39. AMINA IDRIS 5 months ago

    Doctor may Allah reward you abundantly,u said the Truth which is bitter,so good men take note on Dr s advice

  40. Musliu Olakunle AHMED 4 months ago

    Without mincing words, one of the major acts of Kufr being perpetuated by our sisters in Islam is the denial of what ALLAH has permitted.

    It is not the issue of wether or not a man can be just with more than one wife that really matters but the fact that our women detest polygamy from the deepest path of their hearts is what is contestable.

    Only few women will practice Islam to the point of embracing polygamy.

    Apologies to whom it may concern (our sisters), you are not a sincere Muslim if you are happy with the words of ALLAH when it favours you and you spit venom when it’s against your personal interest.

    To my dear brothers in Islam who hides under the words of ALLAH to explore their selfish desires PLEASE repent while you have the opportunity and practice the Deen within the limits and confinement of the Qur’an and the Sunnah (the authentic Hadeeth).

    Don’t ever prostitute with the words of ALLAH, if HE test you faith in this context (polygamy), you will surely fail EXCEPT for those of us (brothers) who are really sincere and are pre-qualified.

    Inwardly (within your heart) you know wether or not you are qualified for this act of Sunnah. PLEASE BE SINCERE in all your dealings as a Muslim.

    May ALLAH assist us to assist ourselves and nurture a generation that will uphold the banner of the Struggle, the Struggle of the Deen.

    Wa ALLAHU a’lam!!!

  41. Aliyu Alhassan 4 months ago

    you are indeed a practice Muslim human and the Almighty Allah continue to guide Protect and shower his blessing upon you, the scientists have discovered that a man with more than one wife stay longer in life than those with only one

  42. Abubakar 2 months ago

    May Allah make it easy to carry out His commandments on us. Most especially, marry more than one wife now should be a must because of women number compare to men number. In order to reduce prostitution in our society and to have a better society. I salute Dr courage for called a spade a spade, may Allah continue to increase her imaani.

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